CN – I think you can probably guess. The cis are in fact at it again. Though not nearly as bad as you might have thought
So after doing my first post, and my balls up – remember to proof read your titles folks, I thought I would submit my findings for day 2 and 3 in this interesting fact finding mission
I have entirely given up on Grindr. The app still hasn’t been fixed and I can’t send any photos. I am destined for really shitty selfies on a useless phone. My only interaction has been to one person really. And it was an actual cow
What was more tragic about this situation was that I didn’t get any cow pictures. Not a single moo.
I tried scruff again and well, I’m fucking terrible at flirting so, I was destined to just have this interaction.
I can’t flirt, OK. I can however suck up my pride and ask a gym bunny where the fuck he got his Batman tank top from. Over all day 2 has been a complete disaster. Why the fuck did I agree to do this
I have pretty much ditched grindr at this point, it really doesn’t work for my phone and thanks to Amazon fucking up our order, I do not have my new phone. Fuck you buddy. I sporadically turn it in from time to time but that is it. Which is a goddamn shame because they just updated their app so trans and non binary folk can list themselves as what ever they want to. I’m aware this has pissed off the cis, but let’s face facts, they are only pissed off cause they can no longer get away with using us as a fetish.
In scruff however it was a different set of results. I in fact managed to speak to a couple of people. One, being someone very nice in London and actually might have some potential, the other.. Well
Trying to explain gender to folks really is exhausting and I feel like I just need a copy and paste for everything.
It’s been quiet on the account of being busy and not being on my phone all day. I have had some form of interaction on grindr, but by the looks of his profile and what he was looking for, was a chaser who blocked me cause I was the wrong sort of trans.
Scruff. Two new people have messaged, not going too badly so far, though I think one had a bit of a panic as soon as they saw a photo of me in old sparky (my chair for those who don’t know her). I don’t know where anything will lead to, but I will keep everyone up to date.
Till next time