Today’s question is what was the relationship that caused the most pain.
OK so I have brought up him many times, but my inability to have a healhy relationship with my own father. He hasn’t exactly wanted me and that’s fine, I no longer want a relationship with him. Unfortunately he would never actually own up to the mistakes he had made with myself and my brother and everything with mum. I’m still pretty bummed out by it all to be honest. Like some people have dad’s that give a shit about their kids.
I know this is a couple of days late; so I apologise.
Fathers day is meant to be a celebration of the male counter part that provides you with life.
For some of us, there is no such person actively involved, so this time of year is a bit shit for us.
So let’s have a day that celebrates the fatherless of us. Whether our dads are addicts or we were told that we were just a mistake. Let’s all come together.
Let’s celebrate the fact that we are better without them. That we made it without their toxic influence.
I propose that this day is some when in the summer so we can do nice things in the sun for it.
Maybe July or August.
Maybe we can get greeting cards that say “Sorry your Dad wasn’t around”
I wonder if they would name a 3 disk CD of best “non father’s day” tracks out there.
Non fathers day bottle holders would be a great thing to be honest.
I will be back soon. I’m making this into a thing
*Content note – Talks of addiction, violence, abuse, rape, miscarriage, abusive step parent*