I’m Tyler, I’m 30 years old, and I live in Brighton in the UK.

My blog is sometimes not suitable for work. And often contains swearing, so if you are easily offended please do not read my content.

I an aware that sometimes my blog can be hard to read, due to either the topic I bring up or my dyslexia. I apologise for that. Some of the topic that I cover are my transition from female to a masculine identified person, queer activism, an insight to my mental health issues , guest posts and some random bits thrown in.

I occasionally do reviews (go check them out) and have done several guest posts for other blogs. I’m always looking to do more reviews or guest blogs, so please feel free to send me a message in the comments section and I will see what I can do.

Whilst I am always happy to do interviews, and written pieces about my transition, sexuality, drug recovery and my faith. There are limits to where I will go. If you are a follower than I assume you wouldn’t, but I refuse offers to speak from far right organisations and TERFs. 

Some of the images I have used are my own, some of them are just images I have found through google. If I have used an image that’s yours, please tell me so I can credit it. I have no intention on claiming what not mine. Most of my images can be found on my instagram which is @tylercharlesausten

When I first started this. I honestly didn’t think how far it would go. I would like to thank everyone who has worked with me, given me chance to speak and given me access to places and things I couldn’t imagine. This shit blew io harder than I dreamed and just thank you for reading all of this. 

If I mention Kai, they are my my fiancé, and there is my other wonderful partner Steph too that I mention quite often. So you can imagine that this blog is polyam friendly.

This is me!

This is me!


17 comments on “About

  1. Hallo! Though I’m new to reading your blog I love reading what you’ve got to say. I’ve nominated you for the Blogger Recognition Award (not because I’ve recognized you on the street and started fangirl-ing or anything. That would be weird. I do have limits…)! You can check out your nomination and details here: http://skillupskillet.com/2015/09/24/stop-the-presses-the-blogger-recognition-award/.
    Skill Up Skillet

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    • Omg that’s amazing!!!!! Thank you so much. I really appreciate what you have done. Thank you.

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      • You’re welcome. You write about important shit, people need to hear what you have to say. Also you’re mouthy like me and I like it. >_>

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      • Hahahaha thank you so much. I’m not even going to lie, I am pretty fucking mouthy


  2. Thanks so much for the follow


    • You are very welcome 🙂

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  3. Thanks for liking my blog. I admire your courage and am waiting for full equality for everyone! My way of helping is to educate everyone, especially students, in wider perspectives, empathy, and social justice.

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    • Thank you so much for your wonderful comment


  4. Great blog, I like your attitude.
    I used to live in Crowborough, not far from you, and I have several friends still living in Brighton, it’s a cool place.

    While I’m here, I thought I’d leave you this; it’s a friend of mine, an extraordinary woman, I think you’ll find her inspiring…


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    • Thank you so much, I’ve actually seen a few TED talks, I think this link will also help a few of my readers too.
      Thank you


      • My pleasure. I’m actually featuring Kelly in a “T is for Trans and TED” post later today, so it was a happy coincidence that I found your blog this morning.

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      • Thank you. One of my partners entire theme for the a-z challenge is on gender and transition. They have done so well, I’m really proud of them.

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      • Here’s more about Kelly…


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  5. Thank you for following me. I look forward to reading about your amazing journey. Writing has always been my go-to. You should write a novel about your experiences. I’m sure there’s nothing out there like your tale. All the best.

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    • Thank you so much


  6. Hmm it looks like your blog ate my first comment (it was extremely long) so I
    guess I’ll just sum it up what I wrote and say,
    I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog. I too am an aspiring blog blogger but I’m still new to everything.

    Do you have any suggestions for beginner blog writers?
    I’d definitely appreciate it.


    • It probably put it in the spam box because of your name (I do hope that’s 18+ web camming)
      Firstly, you need to change your name, other wise you will get very little interaction. Regardless of how pornographic your writing is, you need to have a SWF (safe for work) header.
      Secondly, I just write eveything that I know. Honestly my partners are my biggest critics sometimes and if they don’t like a post, it was probably a shit post.
      Thirdly, I try and blog as much as a physically can. Whilst I have written really long posts, try and stick to between 300-800 words. Always make sure you have at least one image (Google loves that) and never be afraid to say what you honestly want to.
      Fourthly, it took just one article to blow my views up sky high. Whilst this one article got me into a lot of trouble, it brought the attention of a lot of LGBT people who were sick of the system. I’ve received hate mail, abuse and a lot of negativity from some of my stuff too. You need to be strong and take all the blows and come back even more hungry.

      Basically never give up. I’m writing about queer dating and sex because its what I know. Find your neiche and stick to it 🙂



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