Sex Toys And Queerness

Or as I wanted to call it originally “Toys for trans people”. 

We are often seen as sexless beings (unless its porn catered to the fetish market), often discussing toys and sex can seem a bit daunting and you might not know where you want to go, or who to talk to about it. You might want to try different things and you don’t know where to start. 

Firstly you should do your own research. Explore your own body, find out what sort of touch and sensation pleases you and go from there. 

Secondly, if you have a partner with toys, maybe ask to experiment with them. You don’t have to play with toys that you have to penetrate yourself with them. There are a wide variery of sleeves, vibrators, whips, outfits, ect that you can try and experiment with. 

Thirdly, browse websites for toys or go to your local sex shop store. For a good website, I highly recommend lovehoney.com as they have a 12 month return policy if you are unsatisfied with the product. 

Fourthly, enjoy your toys. And if you don’t like them, try something else. It’s perfectly fine to not like some toys, and love other toys. 

Finally, remember lube. Lube is a great friend and makes everything so much better.