This was another word that had a question with the word, so I think that means I have to write about that specifically. As soon I saw the question, its caused me to panic, but I’m a man of my word and I agreed to take on this challenge.
When was the first time you felt love?
I assume the person is asking about relationship love and not family love. Ok, so in all honesty I could count the times I thought I was in love when I was a teenager, but the very first time was when I was 17 and it was with my ex Aidy. I was with him for on and off 7 years and we are still luckily friends. I suppose the reasons why we broke up meant that we would still be friends at the end of it. We had a great run and there is certainly no bitterness between us or the break up, but because he has a private life now and is in a relationship that makes him happy, I don’t talk about our past without him agreeing.
Thank you for reading this. Sorry that its so short. The next post is M for Mother.
Please feel free to comment about your feelings of love. Also please feel free to share this post.
First time? Ah yes, 17, such love anguished years. What I thought was love then, I look back at and realize it wasn’t. Yet, maybe I can’t say that. Because even now in my 50’s I realized that love has changed throughout the years as I’ve grown. So just because my young love wasn’t the same as the mature love I feel now, I can’t truly say that it wasn’t love.
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What a beautiful response. Thank you
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You made me think again Tyler!
Looking forward to your Mother post.
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That is awesome that you are still friends with your first love. My ex, although not my first love, is now my best friend. He has come to be someone I can depend on beyond all others and it’s such a blessing that we spent time together as a couple for we really know each other now. We love each other despite our differences and all we went through…
I love hearing when people remain friends after a breakup. It doesn’t always happen that way, that’s for sure!
Michele at Angels Bark
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Honestly, apart from a couple. I’ve kept friendships with all my ex’s.
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It sounds like he’s lucky to have you as a friend, you sound a respectful guy with a realistic, mature outlook on life. Slightly not answering the question as it wasn’t the first time I felt love, but one of the most intense times was when I realised my elderly father now needed help and that the tables had turned. He was no w having to rely on his daughters rather than the other way round, as it had been for the last 40-50 years. Somehow, being able to reciprocate for what he did for us, as we were growing up, helps.
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It is good to hear that you remain so friendly with your first love. If only it were the same for me! My experiences of being in love usually ended in heartache and complete separation, apart from the marriage I am in now (although that comes with its own challenges).
Oh, and you and I must be psychic blog twins, because my M theme is Mother as well! 😉
https://spookymrsgreen.com/2016/04/14/atozchallenge-l-is-for-love/
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HAHAHA, did you shout out to the random people of the internet to give you post ideas too?
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No, I didn’t! Usually I get my Mum to help with the themes, but this time they just sort of appeared… random! 🙂
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Well I am looking forward to seeing what you do with the title
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Likewise!
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