This isn’t even my break up. Its my partner, but not even my break up
By now you should know that I am in a poly relationship, and this has meant that we (Kai and I) are able to be with other people that are not just us.
I got Kai with someone a couple of months ago, and I thought they would be compatible to each other. He had been in one other poly relationship previous, and had stated that he wasn’t going to be clingy or needy, and understood that time needs to be shared, and it was a bit of a nightmare recently scheduling time because of Kai’s new job. This would be eventually resolved but times right now are a bit hard.
They broke up. Now its not my place to discuss why or to even run my mouth of about either party. I’m not a total bitch. I however am seeing it from someone that I love having to deal with this.
Its tough. You have to wake up in the morning, and notice that your routine is now different, that your partner might be feeling rejected. They might want to talk about how they are feeling, and how pissed off they are over it. And that’s OK, you just sit and listen to them. At the end of the day they need to to be there for them.
I know he’s struggling with the rejection at the moment, and that’s OK. And I hope that the situation resolves itself. Until then all I can do is sit and listen till he feels ready.
Rejection is a tough thing! My girlfriend broke up with me months ago and I feel that I just got over it a couple weeks ago. It’s the feeling that you have it all together and you may be comfortable and rested on them. As soon as they leave it makes you(I mean me) fall flat on your (my) face. Ultimately it’s great that you’re there for them as it can be a tough experience.
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Thank you for writing this ❤